Why consent is more than just a 'yes'

At LSE, we believe it’s essential to create a community where everyone feels safe, respected, and valued. Understanding and practising consent is a fundamental part of this. Consent isn’t just about saying "yes" – it’s a mutual agreement, built on respect, communication, and understanding.

Here’s what you need to know about consent, why it matters, and how to handle situations where things don’t feel right.

What is consent?

Consent is an ongoing, mutual agreement to engage in a specific activity. It should always be given freely, willingly, and without any form of pressure or manipulation. It’s about both people actively and enthusiastically agreeing to the same thing at the same time.

Remember, consent is not a one-time thing. It should be checked throughout by keeping communication open and honest. Consent can also be withdrawn at any time, for any reason, and without explanation. Once consent is withdrawn, all activity must stop immediately.

Key points to keep in mind:

• Clear and unambiguous: A “yes” should be unmistakable. If someone is unsure or hesitant, then it’s not consent.
• Ongoing: Consent should be given each time, and never assumed because you had a "yes" previously.
• Freely given: Consent must not be influenced by coercion, pressure, intoxication, or manipulation.
• Capacity to consent: Both individuals need to be in a position to give consent, meaning they are not under the influence of drugs or alcohol to a degree that impairs their judgment.

Why consent matters

Consent is crucial because it ensures everyone involved feels safe and respected. It’s about understanding that no one has the right to assume, demand, or take what they want from someone else. Consent is also a legal requirement, and without it, activities can cross into assault or harassment, which is not only unethical but against the law.

Having clear consent practices protects both parties, strengthens communication, and helps build healthier, more trusting relationships. It fosters a culture where people can be themselves without fear of judgment or mistreatment.

What to do if there is an issue

If you find yourself in a situation where consent was not respected, it’s important to know you have support, and there are steps you can take:

• Speaking up: If you feel safe to do so, address the issue directly with the person involved. You have the right to tell someone to stop at any point.
• Report it: If you need to report a situation where consent was violated, you can approach LSE’s support services. The university has confidential resources available, including: our Student Wellbeing Service, Policy on Preventing and Addressing Sexual Misconduct and the Student Union Advice Service

These services can provide guidance, support, and assistance with any formal steps you may wish to take. They are there to ensure your experience is handled with care and respect. LSE takes any issue of consent seriously, and your safety is a priority.

If you ever feel uncertain, remember that respect, communication, and care are key. And if you need support or guidance, LSE’s Wellbeing Service and your Halls Wellbeing Teams are available to help.