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Tue 17 Jun, 2025 11:06 AM
Finishing your last ever exams and graduating from college is all fun and games⊠until life after college kicks in. Everyone around you suddenly has completely different plans, and somewhere along the way, youâve grown up. Youâre no longer attending the same classes or working toward the same deadlines. Youâre carving your own path now. For international students, there's the added layer of deciding whether to stay or go home (and the visa maze that comes with it). Tenancies are ending, and now you have to find a new place to live, which adds even more to the commotion. đ
The overwhelm waiting for you after the academic rush can be a lot. And it looks different for everyone because no two post-grad paths are the same. But if thereâs one thing they all share, itâs chaos. đ”âđ«
Letting Go of the LSE Identity đ§
For months, or even years, your identity has been deeply tied to LSE. The campus became your second home, filled with back-to-back lectures, seminars, society meetings and late-night study sessions. With graduation behind you, how you see yourself has completely shifted. Suddenly, you find yourself checking LinkedIn more than Instagram, searching for your next step. The shift from âWhatâs due this week?â to âWhat am I even doing this week?â can feel jarring. Even those around you begin treating you differently. You are not a student anymore, but an adult who is expected to have it all figured out. And thatâs tough, especially when just a few weeks ago, you were still attending class. đ€Ż
Moving Out and Moving On đ
Now that LSEâs intense and intellectually stimulating student life is behind you, itâs also time to move out of the safety and convenience of our beloved halls, if you havenât already. If you're heading back home, itâs slightly easier. But if you're staying in the UK or moving elsewhere, good luck finding a place to rent, especially without viewing it in person, which is a horror story on its own. And even if youâre able to view places, the rent in London or other big cities? Yeah. Good luck. Plus, switching to a new grocery store (because your trusty Sainsburyâs Local isnât around anymore)? Chaos. đ
The Financial Reality Check đž
Student discounts? Gone. Staying in the UK? Say hello to council tax. The ever-increasing cost of living in London? Still here. If you donât have a job yet, the pressure to find one (and fast) is real. If you do, thereâs the stress of managing your new income and budgeting like a grown-up. It starts to feel like no matter where you turn, youâre paying more and saving less. It seems like a never-ending and exhausting struggle. đ°
Navigating Changing Friendships đ
Your LSE friend group may now be scattered across cities, countries, or even time zones. Gone are the days of spontaneous grocery runs or late-night debriefs. Everyone's busy adjusting to their new lives, which sometimes leads to friendships fading. Itâs the harsh reality. When youâre already navigating the unknown alone, this part stings even more. Because even though you're surrounded by change, itâs the absence of familiar people that can make you feel even more isolated. đ
Dealing with the âWhat Now?â Feeling â
You mightâve asked this out loud while hanging out with friends, and someone probably made a joke and changed the subject. But when this question starts popping up during late-night scrolling or worse, family get-togethers, it gets real. The pressure to âmove on to the next big thingâ sets in: a job, another degree, a plan. You feel haunted by the idea of a gap on your CV. And LinkedIn is suddenly the most triggering app on your phone. đ±
But hereâs the truth: Itâs okay to not know your next step immediately. Trust me, there are so many others feeling exactly the same way (even if social media makes it seem otherwise). Youâve just finished one of the most intense academic periods of your life. The very fact that you made it through is proof enough that youâll figure out whatâs next. Pause and breathe. Panicking wonât help you figure it out faster. Itâll only slow you down. And, you don't want that. đźâđš
Youâre human. Feeling overwhelmed, puzzled, or even a little lost and upset right now doesnât mean youâre failing; it just means youâre transitioning. Remember how terrifying it felt to move to London and start at LSE? And yet, you adjusted. You made friends. You met deadlines. You got through it. Youâll get through this, too. đ«¶
Itâs easy to feel like youâre falling behind when everything around you feels uncertain. But just because itâs messy doesnât mean youâre doing it wrong. Youâre just doing it your way. đŹ
So, if youâre feeling unsure, donât isolate yourself. Talk to someone. Message a friend, call your family, reach out to a mentor. Even if itâs just to rant or cry. Practical support is available too, like LSE Careers. (Yes, you can still book one-to-one careers advice appointments even as a recent grad.)
Life post-LSE is messy, weird, and kinda scary, but hey, so was Week 1. Youâve survived exam season, dissertations, and 9 a.m. lectures, trust yourself to survive this unknown too.