Posted 10 hours ago
Sat 27 Sep, 2025 11:09 AM
Making friends is one of the greatest perks of living in halls, and being a good hall mate certainly makes that process much easier. More than that, it helps create a warm, respectful, and harmonious living environment that everyone can enjoy!
Respect shared spaces
When using the kitchen, always wash up after yourself. It prevents unnecessary tension among flatmates and helps reduce the workload for cleaners. Make sure to throw away your expired food from the fridge and try not to clog the sink (it can get nasty!). Also, take a moment to read bin labels so you can sort your rubbish correctly into recycling, general waste, and food waste.
In the common room, tidy up after yourself and put things back where they belong. In the dining area, return your tray after eating and don’t leave any rubbish behind. When it comes to shared bathrooms, the basics go a long way: always flush the toilet and clean up after your shower.
Be mindful of noise
Living with others means recognising that not everyone keeps the same schedule. Whether you're chatting, listening to music, or hosting friends, keep your noise level respectful, especially late at night. Quiet hours usually run from 11 pm to 8 am, so try to keep the volume to a minimum during those times. Also, try to inform your flat mates in advance if you’re planning a gathering or hosting guests in your room or your kitchen.
Respect privacy and security
Always knock before entering someone’s room, and don’t take it personally if a flatmate doesn’t feel like socialising all the time, as some people recharge best on their own. Don’t forget to lock your own door when leaving your room to not only protect your belongings but also to encourage people to take security seriously.
Be inclusive (not intrusive)
Small gestures can help build meaningful connections. Saying hello, asking how someone's day went, or inviting your flatmates to join you for a meal can make a big difference. At the same time, it’s important to be mindful of personal boundaries. Not everyone will want to hang out all the time, and that’s okay. Respecting cultural, dietary, and religious differences is part of being a thoughtful hall mate and helps create a welcoming environment for all.
Communication is key
It’s normal for issues to arise when living in halls, whether it’s about a messy kitchen or loud chatting. When they do, a calm, polite conversation is usually the best way to clear things up. Use the hall group chats to communicate your concerns, share reminders, and check in with each other to keep things running smoothly for everyone.
If everyone does their part and shows a little kindness and responsibility, you can make your hall the place where friendships form, good memories are made, and everyone feels at home! 🏡